Do you understand letters when someone spells a name or word?
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Do you understand letters when someone spells a name or word to you? Some letters sound alike and are hard to distinguish. Is there any way to get the spelling right?

When I don’t understand a person’s name, I ask them to spell it for me. Letters are hard for me to distinguish because of my hearing loss and you will not believe how I can botch a name.

A man called and said his name was “Pentony,” but to me it sounded like, Bentony, or was it, “Tenpenny?” or “Bemgony” or Ginpony or maybe Baloney? Then the problem got worse when I asked him to spell it. On the first letter, are you saying ‘B’ as in boy? Or ‘C’ as in cat? Or ‘D’ as in David? Or ‘G’ as in George? Or ‘T’ as in Tom? Or ‘P’ as in Pope? Or ‘K’ as in kick?

Now I am in deep trouble and still confused what this guy’s name is. Today with my CapTel captioning telephone even the captionist does not always get it right. This is the high cost of being hard of hearing.

Two of my hard of hearing friends are pharmacists and are really having a difficult time hearing those strange medical terms from the doctors. My friends cannot afford to make any mistakes on prescriptions. It is too dangerous.

They solved their own in-office communication problems by using a speaker phone. They have two co-workers listen for them on every call that comes in. This is time consuming and expensive in the medical profession. Doctors do not have time to repeat orders or explain what the medicine is for. The pharmacists have to get it the first time and get it right. This method will not work for me.

I had to develop a way to get the correct spelling by creating my own phonetic alphabet that will help me to get it right. The International Phonetic code used by the military, police and boys scouts did not help me enough. Take the following alphabet and keep it by your telephone.

Harrison’s Hard of Hearing Phonetic Alphabet Code:

  1. A.     Adam’s Apple
  2. B.     Baby Boy
  3. C.     Calico Cat
  4. D.     Dandy Daddy
  5. E.     Elephant Ears
  6. F.      Fluffy Feather
  7. G.    Goofy Golf
  8. H.    Ho Ho Ho
  9. I.       Indiana Ink
  10. J.       Jolly Jumper
  11. K.     Kooky  Kid
  12. L.      Little Lilly
  13. M.   Momma Mia

 

  1. N.    Nanny Nun
  2. O.    Ollie Olson
  3. P.     Peppermint Patty
  4. Q.    Queen of Quebec
  5. R.     Romeo Rome
  6. S.      Soup & Salad
  7. T.     Tattoo Tom
  8. U.    University Union
  9. V.     Valley View
  10. W.   Wee Wee Willie
  11. X.     Extra X-ray
  12. Y.     Yellow Yankee
  13. Z.      Zebra Zoo

© 2012 Let My People Hear, Inc.

 

Keep this card by the phone and tell people up front that you are using a phonetic code for spelling. Confirm every word by repeating it; a simple tool I trust it will be helpful.

We need all the help we can get for clear communication. Tell us about how you deal with the challenge of spelling words or names.

Until the Trumpet Sounds: LET MY PEOPLE HEAR!

David M. Harrison

 

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I Couldn’t Tell Anyone I’m Hard of Hearing
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Bonnie* came to the Lip Reading Academy to get help with her hearing loss. She hoped that we could help her deal with daily communication challenges.

Bonnies’ greatest challenge was in a large weekly Bible study and prayer time in a ladies’ group. She could not hear comments and prayers coming from the group and became discouraged to the point of dropping out.

At the Lip Reading Academy, we stress the importance of telling others about your hearing loss.

Bonnie responded, “I couldn’t tell anyone I’m hard of hearing.” “What will they think of me?”

My only reply was, “Then you will continue to suffer in silence or drop out.”

As the Academy sessions continued, we re-emphasized the need to speak up and make your need to hear known. The burden is on each of us to make our hearing loss public. It does no good to keep it a secret.

Several weeks went by and Bonnie gave us this report to the Academy about what happened in the ladies group. She stood up and said…

“I have a confession to make. I am having trouble hearing in our group. I am hard of hearing and wear two hearing aids, pulling out both of them to show. I have difficulty understanding what people are saying.

It was deathly silent for a moment. A shock wave went out over the group as the ladies gasped in dismay. Several ladies shouted, ‘Oh Bonnie!,’ as they  stood to their feet, ‘ I too am hard of hearing’, and pulled out their hearing aids as proof.”

Bonnie discovered that she was not the only one in the group who needed help in hearing. She was able to help the entire group by making several changes so everyone could see, hear and understand everything spoken. It made all the difference in the world for this ladies group.

In the Lip Reading Academy we commission every student to become a crusader and an advocate for hearing accessibility. Go and do likewise. Attend the Lip Reading Academy or the Hearing Loss Rehab Institute. It can make a world of difference for you.

Until the Trumpet Sounds: LET MY PEOPLE HEAR!

David M. Harrison

P.S. * Bonnie is not her real name.

P.P.S. Get a free copy of my ebook: Seven Principles for Communicating With Hard of Hearing.

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